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Water Dragon
05-21-2002, 07:55 AM
http://www.cnn.com/2002/US/05/21/internet.girl.dead.ap/index.html

ewallace
05-21-2002, 08:01 AM
How depressing. My daughter isn't old enough to read yet and this still scares the bejesus out of me.

We just found out that my wife is pregnant again too. Totally unexpected. I'm happy and sad at the same time. This story just leaned me more toward the sad side.

Badger
05-21-2002, 08:23 AM
Parents:
Teach your children about these things.
Watch them like a Hawk.
Let's get laws passed that get FIRST time offensers put away- FOR GOOD.




Badger

JWTAYLOR
05-21-2002, 08:38 AM
You know, we should all be pretty much used to this sh!t by now.

But I'm glad we're not. After all the crap I've seen, this shouldn't surprise me, shouldn't anger me so mother fu(king much.

But I'm glad it does.

JWT

Gigante
05-21-2002, 08:57 AM
Yes, I actually recommend spying on your children... check your browsers, see where they have been, chatrooms etc.

GunnedDownAtrocity
05-21-2002, 09:53 AM
put me in a room with that man for 5 minutes and the mere thought of what i would do to him would kill him of shock.

on prevention . ..

i don't know about spying . .. if you get caught they'll just use their friends computer.

you need to make sure they understand what can actually happen and actually make an effort to be involved in their life. we met a girl from the internet one time in high school. she met up with us to go to a manson concert. but her dad came with her. tell you the tuth i ended up liking her dad better than her.

i plan on collecting stories like that . .. pics included where available . .. and saying look dipsh!t this is what can happen. kids need to have a healthy fear of what reality can offer if you abandon common sense. if she wants to meet someone that bad, fine, ill go with her. i think the best prevention is to have a well informed child and be involved in their life. and in order to be involved you gotta let the little **** slide. that means no spying, no dictatorship on how they dress, no freaking out over little mistakes you once made yourself. otherwise they will hate you, actively try to disprove everything you say, and get away with whatever they want regardless of how difficult you make it. kids, especially teens, are crafty little fu ckers and they will find a way to shove the "cause i said so" sh!t up your ass. save your yelling and preaching for when it really matters and their ears will be a little more open.

i dunno, maybe im one of dem dare librals or somethin, but i dont care if my kids look at porn, get their ****.in nose pierced, or wear ridiculous clothes. but i will beat the sh!t out of the first one i catch drinking and driving. my little girl will also know more than she'll ever want to about internet stalkers, date rape, roofies, and self defence. most of this is speculative as my daughter is just 3, but i really dont see me having a problem with her staying out late as long as she calls to check in every couple hours and also calls before going anywhere else. if she were to go elsewhere without calling to let me know that's gonna be some serious sh!t. at 17 kids are gonna experiment with drinking. fine ... invite your friends over, lock the basement door, and i'll leave you alone. i just don't know how you can truly know where they are at and what they are doing unless you are cool with the harmless sh!t they will do anyway.

wushu chik
05-21-2002, 12:26 PM
Congratulations E! You shouldn't be sad about that! I have 2, it's just double the fun!!!

And, I agree with GDA. I would rather my kids be at home doing those things, then out and about not knowing what they are doing, who they are with etc. I guess it comes from knowing what I did as a teen!!!

~Wen~

GunnedDownAtrocity
05-21-2002, 01:38 PM
"guess it comes from knowing what I did as a teen!!! "

exactly.

SifuAbel
05-22-2002, 03:07 AM
Now you know why I make such a big stink about NC.

ewallace
05-22-2002, 07:08 AM
Thanks wendy. Fortunately we found out last night that it was a false alarm. I am going to sue the pregnancy test makers for emotional distress.

GunnedDownAtrocity
05-22-2002, 08:55 AM
you don't like north carolina?

ewallace
05-22-2002, 09:01 AM
NC is an abbreviation for Neal *******.

ewallace
05-22-2002, 09:11 AM
Why the hell was C A M E R O N censored? That's pretty **** gay.

Badger
05-22-2002, 09:36 AM
Because it's a dirty word.


We need another word to describe "it". how about elephant tit?






Badger

GunnedDownAtrocity
05-22-2002, 09:39 AM
oh yeah ... that fu.ck.

was it ever actually determined if he did more than pee in public or something though?

diego
05-22-2002, 01:46 PM
Look @ this Link, It starts out tragic, then turns into nbcs tvmovie of the week

http://www.msnbc.com/news/678788.asp?0si=-

SifuAbel
05-22-2002, 04:24 PM
Originally posted by GunnedDownAtrocity
oh yeah ... that fu.ck.

was it ever actually determined if he did more than pee in public or something though?

Freedom of speech is so totally dead. Now we can't even spell his name.

It was exposure at two children in a secluded room, NOT peeing in public.

If anything is ON topic on this board is the defense of children and loved ones. But lets keep it PC by calling them si dai instead of younger brother, Being that it seems to be OK if its in chinese terms.

Oh! wait!, I forgot to put the OT in front of this post that makes it OK. So here, OT.

Water Dragon
05-22-2002, 05:55 PM
Da.mn Abel,
Why are you so bitter all the time? It takes a lot less energy to be happy dude.

diego
05-22-2002, 06:41 PM
http://www.snopes2.com/photos/lumber.htm

Maybe this thread can turn into the newslink thread for topnews and quirkey exploits, as people always post these,? may as well lockem together!.

SifuAbel
05-23-2002, 12:42 AM
WD,

You're a wet noodle.

I'd rather be bitter and aware then happy and ignorant.

scotty1
05-23-2002, 12:49 AM
Why does happiness get lumped in with ignorance for you Abel?

I'm happy, and more aware than I've ever been.

Try it, you might like it.

Helps with getting laid too.

wushu chik
05-23-2002, 12:52 AM
Scotty,
I think that's what he is lacking the most!!! Besides a sense of humor!

~Wen~

SifuAbel
05-23-2002, 01:01 AM
You tell me, apparently your computer has the power to note a persons emotional state from a few text characters. Do you have one of those new colored "mood" computers that change shades when you are happy or randy?

Has it ever occured to either of you that it could be tenacity instead of bitterness? Or, A determined will to get something done? here, let me confuse you. :) :mad: :eek: :o :D

Why am I equating happyness with ingnorance? Why do you think they call it "blisfully ignorant".

SifuAbel
05-23-2002, 01:04 AM
whats that humming?

WC, you left your 12" pocket pal on. :eek:

If anyone fits the above..............

scotty1
05-23-2002, 01:05 AM
Dude, we're just joshin' ya!!

Blisfull ignorance is a phrase, not a rule.

SifuAbel
05-23-2002, 01:07 AM
It seems to be the preferred state of being for some, scotty old boy.

wushu chik
05-23-2002, 01:12 AM
Do you realize how easy you are to get to? Don't you think that's why people LOVE to screw with you? Get a sense of humor, and get the corn cob out of your ass!

~Wen~

scotty1
05-23-2002, 01:14 AM
Yes, I would agree me old muckeroo.

But to draw an analogy, you'll never get an ostritch to pull his head out of the sand because, well, his head's in the sand, and he can't hear you.

SifuAbel
05-23-2002, 01:34 AM
Scotty(beam me up),

True words, thats why I kick the old bird in the ribs when ever I get the chance.

WC, It seems its me getting to you. you want the corn cob now? Geez, if I yell at you would it echo in there. Next you'll want to furnish it and turn it into a sublet. hello lo lo lo lo lo hmmmmmmmmmmmmm roomy. I guess you don't need any extra luggage on trips. You come with your own baggage.

scotty1
05-23-2002, 01:42 AM
Abel me old jiminy cricket,

Kicking the bird in the ribs is likely to a) get its head up in the fresh air rather quickly or b) make it dig its head in deeper and hope you go away.

Or c) kick you out of bed.

SifuAbel
05-23-2002, 02:05 AM
a) probably

b) at least it will drown and be done with it.

c) If its that kind of "bird", then who cares about the "head" when you can stuff it from behind?

;) :D

scotty1
05-23-2002, 02:31 AM
Filthy b!tch.:)