Originally Posted by
YouKnowWho
When you create a thread,
1. if no one respond to your post, you will feel been ignored.
2. people all respond to your post,
if you
- only respond to those who agree with you, people will say that you want to hear what you like to hear.
- also respond to those who don't agree with you, people will say that you start a thread so you can argue with others.
It's a lose-lose situation no matter which direction your thread may go. When you open your window, butterfly will fly in, but mosquito will fly in too.
When someone puts up a clip and asks for comment, don't comment it. Unless your comment is
- excellent,
- great job,
- I love it,
- thanks for sharing,
- ...,
any other comment will be treated as criticize on his skill and you will be considered as his enemy.
Sometime to put yourself in "listen" mode can give you a much peaceful life without having to worry about your blood pressure raising.
- more opinion -> more argument
- less opinion -> less argument
- no opinion -> no argument