My dad is somewhat opposite
Dad had a severe stroke nearly a decade ago. It left him as a severe aphasiac (unable to understand speech or speak). My mom has been his caretaker. He is 84, but was very active up until the stroke, playing tennis, golf, and hiking, as well as doing a ton of yardwork and stuff. He had a fall at the beginning of August, which might have been symptomatic of other issues that have come up in his rehab. He's been under skilled care at a facility ever since.
How is the rest of your family coping?