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Are there women on this forum too? I am new.
yes, there are a few of them.
not i however.
Welcome :D
so glad to have you. Becca and ruf and tuff girl are 2, but I will do all I can to remember every name:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
hwo could I forget about liz c. She is a woman I will be pursuing.
There were a lot more, but we chased em off.
Ming Yue, a high quality woman if ever there was one. And before her Eulerfan, Cady, various others...
I think most of the men on this forum like their men of the male persuasion! ;)
Welcome and stick around. :D You could have fun!
... Just be careful of what you say... some of these guys can and will misconstue anything you say. ;)
And welcome! I'm here quite a bit, but I'm more of a lurker than a poster.
what about hot ones? are there any that are hot? also what was blooming lotus, a she or a he?
I feel like I have been hard on you hieronim. Becca, I love reading your posts, can you take this?
EEK:eek: Dont even Mention Blooming Lotus!!i dont think many of us know if BL is a woman anyway.(some other species that may have some feminine attributes,but we arent 100% sure);) :D :)
As Always,,TWS
imagine being me, Being almost 22 and never having had sex? How do you think that feels? My crippling shyness is killing me here. And knowing full well that a lot of females wanted me before and I was too shy to do anything about it, and this makes it even worse.
but seriously, you need to go to somebody who does brainwashing or something. If you think you had it before and you are 22 now, you don't have it. I don't know what the hell having it is but the ONLY thing I know is that if you are not a good looking guy(description of me), then you need to take chances. And if you keep getting shot down, take more chances. Go to the bar, find that ugly girl who is looking at every guy there and is waiting for someone to make eye contact, just go over and sit down by her. Start a conversation. You don't need to like take her home but you are guaranteed she will talk to you and it will be good practice. Tell me what happens.
yeah,yeah- me too! It's so hard being this incredibly handsome, rugged, yet sensitive man, who loves puppies and kittens, walks on the beach, sunsets, and cuddling after sex. Oh, and did I also mention that I don't even need to be satisfied myself, nope, not me. I'm really interested in giving in to anything to satisfy a woman's desires. yeah, that's it. Um..what else..let's see. Lemmie look through some of these back issues of Cosmo I have here, oh, they're not MINE, I simply keep them around for anyone who wants to read them, and also I like knowing what women truly need to talk about in their lives..and um, OH TALKING!!YES! I can listen to a woman talk all fukin DAY! Sometimes I just stay up till all hours of the night listening to my girlfriends talk, vent, lament, etc because they truly need validation-Boy, how I love that word!
yeah, so um, welcome to the forum, and pay no attention to these other fools on here. You know men, they're just after one thing.
So...got any pics? Got a webcam?
What are you wearing?
Hey rick sounds like you are in need of a happy ending;)
just to clarify cause hieronim seriously needs some help
not a good looking guy(description of me)
What????????Quote:
Originally Posted by jethro
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Originally Posted by Hieronim
hoping you could respond to the hot ones, "are there any that are hot", but the blooming lotus was nice, big ups hieronim.
Self confidence is more atractive than blooming egos... ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by jethro
I guess will have to wait till Gene informs us as to the status of BL's sex. I had heard that there was some ....interesting pics sent to him :eek:
this is very interesting:
http://www.mma.tv/tuf/index.cfm?ac=L...D=808853&FID=2
as for me, I find it extremely difficult to seduce women. Before opening my mouth I'm screwed. And then, you get the question that ruins your chances. What do you do for a living? You have nothing to bring to the table. If you are honest, no girls will go with you.
You Can Start By Getting Afuking Job!
Nope, not true. Honesty is appriciated. But you gotta put it the right way. Telling a "nice girl" you love her... assets... will get you slapped, or worse. Treating a worldly woman like a nice girl will get you ignored, or worse.
I wasn't entierly joking about confidence winning out over ego. A hot guy who knows he's hot is a dime a dozen. (using 7*'s defenition of "hot") But a butt ugly guy with charm and selfconfidence is sexy.
This in the 21 century. Rther than trying to seduce a woman, try just talking to us. Sooner or later you might find yourself in the shoes of the 40-year-old vergin. You will have some woman you've know for years trying to lay you. Funny as that movie was, there was some good tips in there.
when I had a job I still coudlnt meet none.Quote:
Originally Posted by jethro
Dude, see, that's your problem. You WANT to meet a woman. Why? They're just bags of flesh like you that rot and decay. They realize this because they bleed every month.
Therefore, if you WANT to meet a woman, instantly you're kindof a chump. Women aren't into chumps. You come off as desperate and women don't like that. They aren't attracted to that.
If you get a woman with this attitude, you'll only attract the ones that want to scam off of you, cheat on you, take your $$$ and run.
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Anyways, my recommendation to you is find a friend who is successful with women, and let him train you in how to deal with them. Otherwise you're probably never going to figure this out.
You never have to tell them the truth. Just lie. If they don't like you, they'll get mad at you no matter what you say.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hieronim
If they do like you, then they'll think it's romantic you lied to them to get them to go out with you.
Oh, and 90% of them 'liking you' is if you were good in the sack (meaning the 'Big O').
Nutso, yes? Don't ask me. But I've seen guys use this over and over again. Lie, lie, lie. Use it liberally and often.
I know what it is. You have to be ana sshole and jerk and alpha male type who draws attnetion to himself by yelling or getting into arguments in front of a bar with a bouncer, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by neilhytholt
Have you ever watched an old movie called Ferris Bueler's Day Off?Quote:
Originally Posted by Hieronim
Part of the problem is if you have a problem, it's this big thing in your mind. You are blowing it totally out of proportion, so you continually mess it up.
So my recommendation is find somebody who is successful, and have them school you. Because if you know they do it, then you'll be able to do it too.
You want to learn to fight, what do you do? Do you look at great fighters and try to figure out how to fight them? No, you go out and take a martial arts class and train to fight them.
The other thing is, do you have any female relatives? Or female friends?
Maybe get them to hook you up on some dates. Even if it's not with somebody you're interested in, at least then you will know what's involved in a date.
The thing is, the older you get, the harder it will be because the bigger a thing it will be in your mind. If you think it's hard at whatever age you're at, add a year, add another year, etc. It will just become this big obstacle.
Basically it's like doing a high dive into the deep end. You see it, it looks so hard, you worry you'll do a belly flop and kill yourself. So you stand up there, freaking out, and the longer you stand up there, the harder it is.
So you have 3 options. 1) Just jump, and mess up the first few times. 2) Mess around in the shallow end, do some low dives, get used to the water or 3) Be sad for the rest of your life.
I'd recommend #2, which is, have your friends set you up on some dates and GO on the dates, even if it's not somebody you're interested in, even if it's not somebody you're going to want to marry or anything, just get it over with.
Because when you finally do dive, you're just going to go, "That was easy. Why didn't I do that a long time ago?"
no all my relatives dont live close to me beside my mom, and I dont have any tight friends like that. and I did try and fialed everytime, everytime I try tlakgin to a female I dont know what to say or I come off as a creepy desperate dude hitting on them.
Look at the names... there's Neil, who you've currently decided has the right idea about women... and there's Becca, whose good advice you've ignored... think carefully: which one is a woman?Quote:
Originally Posted by Hieronim
Is that because you are a creepy desperate dude hitting on them?Quote:
Originally Posted by H
Like I've said before: you lie, cheat and fool your women into the sack you're gonna get the liars, cheats and fools. It perpetuates a cycle of idiot, low-self-esteem behaviour.
Chill. Follow Becca's advice.
And stop hanging out on dumb websites like hatewomen.com or whatever it was, cos they're all full of other twisted losers. You might wanna stop going to the MA classes too as you seem to be an idiot... er sorry, to have the most easily damaged ego in history, and plenty of it.
never listen to advice by women about women. women will tell you they want a sweet nice guy, but deep down isnide they know they want a wild abd boy who will dominate them (what they wish most for) and keep them on their toes, and theyll feel excited by it. What women say they want and waht theya ctually want (if they even know) are completly different things.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mat
D@mn, you're stupid.
If you're not going to listen to a woman, listen to me, cos she's saying the same things I have to you on this board umpteen times: I've always had more women than I can handle and I'm a really nice guy (if a little immodest at times...! ;) )! :D Just whatever you do stop listening to losers!
girls tend to go for the jerk. women tend to go for guys with confidence. at least that seems to be my experience. the reason is when they are younger they tend to mistake the guy being a jerk for him being confident. but as they get older they realize he's just a jerk.
if you can't fake confidence and you refuse to lie about what you do for a living i have the perfect solution. this wisdom was handed down to me by a wise man many many years ago. are you familiar with the 3 point stance linemen in american football use? well if not go learn it. its going to be your new best friend. so wait behind some bushes or something (in a 3 point stance) until you see a woman you find attractive walk by. and trust me this next step is crucial and its a lot quicker than chatting her up so make sure you do it right. tackle her. thats right, full on as powerful as you can tackle her. then carry her unconscious body to the hospital and bring her flowers and wait by the bed (it shows you are senstive). then when she comes to tell her how you saved her life and carried her dying body across town in your arms and have been watching after her in the hospital the whole time. she'll be so thankful she will love you forever. that way you are a jerk and a nice guy all in one (just like they want). fool proof plan.
good luck.
women dont trally want a bad guy-but they do want a "bad boy". There is a difference. They like a small bit of wildness and excitement, and confidense, but a real Bad boy will end up as an abusive, low-life. They want the look and excitement, but not the real deal.
"Bad-Boy Lite" Like a"rebel" who rides a Harley, but has a job, is responsible, and takes care of his family, is not unrefined, and is considerate of others.
The starving artist, musician, writer, poet-all romantic images, yet what woman would actually want that in their life? Women want security-stability, financial, mental, and emotional.
Welcome. I am one of the three women that post in these forums and I just joined recently. I am sure there are more. I don't know how this post got to the replies you are getting. It seems a little intimidating sometimes, but feel your way around the different forums. Have fun!
[QUOTE=neilhytholt]Dude, see, that's your problem. You WANT to meet a woman. Why? They're just bags of flesh like you that rot and decay. They realize this because they bleed every month.
Sounds as if your girlfriend "Wendy, AKA Windy" the blow up doll and you are doing well.:D She's the ultimate woman, never rots or decays.:eek: I'll stay with the flesh and blood woman.
[QUOTE=neilhytholt]Oh, and 90% of them 'liking you' is if you were good in the sack (meaning the 'Big O')."
Man is that soo not true. More than half the women will not get the "O" that way although they will fake it. ;) It is difficult for most women. Having an asset like Gene Simmons would help. ~~~
Women can also smell the fear in you. If you do not have confidence in yourself, they'll know.
Bottom line, like yourself first before anyone else will.
almost all guys who are in a band get laid. as long as the guy is in a band, hes got it made.
The point I was trying to make is that women are just flesh and blood, get sick, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by BM2
Like that one French movie where the guy's all gaga over this woman, and she goes, "Why are do you like me so much? I get sick and I'll get old, and my teeth rot."
To a lot of guys they think they're something great, something better than men or something, and that's intimidating.
But they're not better, they're just human.
Anyways, Hieronym, I don't know what to tell you. It sounds like you need more social outlets and experience.
My brother is the same way -- he's totally intimidated by women.
Maybe you can start by just talking to women at the counters at the coffee shop, bookstore, etc. Just say something stupid, like, "Oh, have you ever tried the 8 grain rolls." Or, "Have you ever read Heart of Darkness" or something like that.
Or go to parties and talk to women there, I don't know.
thats because you are...Quote:
Originally Posted by Hieronim
I miss "Wendy-Wushu Chick":( Where is she at these days? Still in Oregon or did she go back to Cali?
You know i remember when She and i were going to get married Naked on top of a mountain in New Mexico,,,,,But then i found out she is related to "Vanilla Ice", so i traded up;) :p :D .
Peace,,TWS
there are around 6 billion people on this rock...
you need to be yourself. why?
because thats who you are, and any one you get in a relationship with will find out who that is eventually, why beat around the bush.
lay it all out on the table everytime.