peacemaker or troublemaker?
peacemaker, I suggest you take Dave up on his offer and visit everyone in NYC. I don't believe there's any more advise I can offer you besides - form your own opinions thru your own journeys and experiences.
By the way, I do my siu lim tao levitating off the ground for 6 hours while whistling "yankee doodle dandee" painfully slow while chewing 2 sticks of gum, and reading the Wall Street Journal. Which means of course that - everyone else has empty Wing Chun, can't whistle worth a lick, have bad breath, and lose money on the market! Right?
And that's all I've got to say about that - Forest Gump