only if she's waring a got qi T-shirt!!!Quote:
You like petite busty blondes with a lot of bizarre fetishes and no inhibitions?
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only if she's waring a got qi T-shirt!!!Quote:
You like petite busty blondes with a lot of bizarre fetishes and no inhibitions?
Ah! They have qi indeed, but is it positive qi? On has to wonder
D@mn boy, who doesn't!?Quote:
Originally posted by red5angel
how about I just set you up with her and watch the screaming begin! You like petite busty blondes with a lot of bizarre fetishes and no inhibitions?
I'm going to touch on a very iffy subject here, so if people (Gene) think it needs collaring, then just say the word...
OK, you have a partner (I guess this is really for the guys, but girls feel free to chime in), so your girl likes to have anal sex, but you are really not into it. Where's the line drawn there? Should the guy close his eyes and think of England and do what his girl likes or is he justified in saying, "No way, baby, I'm not going up there!"
(This is purely hypothetical, by the way, as I've never found myself in this situation. Was just wonderin'.)
Actually, what about the other side too. A guy likes it and a girl's not into it. Should she give in or not? I think the girl has a much better case for refusal.
an jie: of course it is man - u just gotta look at the links design sifu and others keep posting ;)
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You are ALWAYS justified in saying, "no way baby, I'm not going to go there." However, if you do, she is that much more likely to pull the same thing with you about something you want. Like I said, negotiation. If she wants it that bad, she should provide you with the incentive.Quote:
Originally posted by Serpent
D@mn boy, who doesn't!?
I'm going to touch on a very iffy subject here, so if people (Gene) think it needs collaring, then just say the word...
OK, you have a partner (I guess this is really for the guys, but girls feel free to chime in), so your girl likes to have anal sex, but you are really not into it. Where's the line drawn there? Should the guy close his eyes and think of England and do what his girl likes or is he justified in saying, "No way, baby, I'm not going up there!"
(This is purely hypothetical, by the way, as I've never found myself in this situation. Was just wonderin'.)
Actually, what about the other side too. A guy likes it and a girl's not into it. Should she give in or not? I think the girl has a much better case for refusal.
I would, and have, said no way, not now, not ever. It is one thing if your partner just isn't 'into' what you are 'into'. It's another thing if what you are 'into' involves your partner experiencing pain and discomfort. If I had to do that to get what I wanted, I'd go without. It would take some pretty Herculean tasks to sweeten that deal for me.
I really surprised my last girlfriend when I stuck my finger in her nether parts during cunnilingus. Every gal I'd been with prior to that practically insisted on a little bootie play during just about any sex antic. I had gotten to the point where I assumed it was what every sheperson liked (they'd tried it with me too, but it gave me no thrill at all.) But the last one didn't like it at all! I got a big lecture. I didn't really need it - I figured it was for her pleasure since it definitely wasn't for mine! But it sure taught me to ask first.
Pretty much the way I feel about these things. To be honest, I really can't see the attraction in it for either party!
agreed. i'm even ¼ greek, and i don't see the draw to back-door banditry, hetero or otherwise.
must be a german thing. :confused:
All the more reason to watch the Sue Johanson show on Oxygen!
That is, if seeing a sweet old lady pull a *****/buttplug/whathtehellisthat? from her desk drawer and start explaining proper usage isn't enough for you.
Heh! The censor asterisks out ***** but not buttplug!
I should probably add a caveat for the guy refusing.
Women can refuse without worry since it's difficult to find a woman who is into that. Guys who are into that are a dime a dozen, however.
If you won't, she'll have no real problem finding a guy who, not only will, but will bend over backwards for the opportunity.
My previous reply was with regard to eulerfan's response.
CSN, you're lucky you didn't get a double thigh head crush! I can see where you're coming from, but I sure wouldn't go near there without asking. In fact, I'd have to be asked, cos I wouldn't do it voluntarily and, even if she asked real nice, I still don't think I'd do it! :eek: ;)
RTB, if the greeks even don't like it, then who is anyone else to argue! I think you're right. Something weird going on with those Germans.
Is that right? In your experience? I wonder what the attraction is. It can't just be the tightness factor.Quote:
Originally posted by eulerfan
I should probably add a caveat for the guy refusing.
Women can refuse without worry since it's difficult to find a woman who is into that. Guys who are into that are a dime a dozen, however.
If you won't, she'll have no real problem finding a guy who, not only will, but will bend over backwards for the opportunity.
(Oh man, this huge thread must really be teetering on the edge now!)
Okay, I have a question.
If a guy refuses regular old sex with a woman when it's 'that time' for her, is she justified in refusing to give him pleasure during that time?
What do you mean by "give pleasure"? Good conversation? Letting him pick the movie? Cooking his favorite meal?
If you don't wanna do something sexually at any time, for any reason, you're justified. It's your body. On the other hand, if you're just doing it to be petulant, you can reasonably expect petulance in return.
maybe it's cause i'm only a quarter. perhaps if i had more greek in me then i'd ... want more greek in me. :eek:
or maybe i just didn't have any ancestors serve in alexander the great's army :D
or maybe i enjoy the feeling of a good, satisfying sitdown in the bafroom. gimme the newest issue of "motor trend" and i'm happy. perhaps if i was a little looser in back, such events wouldn't have the same panache or appeal.
but since i'm not all that keen on it for myself, the desire to do it to someone else isn't all that present, either.