I'm not saying it makes sense, this is the male ego we're talking about here.
If he's tomcatting around, though, it makes option one seem considerably more likely.
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I'm not saying it makes sense, this is the male ego we're talking about here.
If he's tomcatting around, though, it makes option one seem considerably more likely.
mmmm...I understand. I know now...more than ever...that you cannot change a man. But accept him for who he is. If you accept a man for what he is...then you wont be dissappointed.
Thanks CSN:D
It is just the effect of the ego, rather than affecting the ego. As a rather frequent "Capt'n save a Ho" (an affectionate term my friends have dubbed me) I've seen this way too much. Both males and females will have their egos effected, but the effect of this is apperent so much differently between males and females. A lot of this comes down to tags, expectations, and other "outside influences." These tags and expectations come from a difference in what people expect at certain points (which are the tags). Too many people look at these things in a linear pattern with certain benchmarks.
Not knowing the people, I'd have to say that as a guy, I'd like to say that all to often, a guy is single, wants a girl, then gets the girl, once this happens, hmm, I can get this girl to like me, etc.... wonder what about x, or y.... Or there is the possibility that he is chasing, or that he found something too overbearing in her character that might not have been apparent earlier.
Other things to note. When going through the whole "courtship" which I quotate, because this seems to change so much year by year, most people (like almost all, whether they will admit it or not) will bring foward there better (or what they think is) attributes and qualities. Another good example of this is the parental meeting, where you would meet you significant others parents.... how you would play off of your "good" side. Of course the funny story about this or that where you still end up looking like an innocent bystander, or someone that was brought into the situation.
But again, I'd like to say availability is usually the problem.
Margie, a man is a man, which can be a dynamic being, however, we can't know we are changing too much.....:)
I gotcha. ;)
Thanks for the insight. I have to share this with my girlfriend tonight.
Were going dancing some where in the bay area!
A Guy falling in love is even weirder.
All of the above mentioned about a guy is surely valid...
HOT PANTS
or
FEAR of INTAMACY
This being the "bay Area" there may be some variances on what was ment by "love"
Could be he's being all dramatic as well.
either tying up "loose ends" calling up other girls and ending things with 'em
Out on a vision quest making sure he "loves" her...
There could also be a question as to weither the "love" comment was offered or sought out.
Girl: "I think I love you"
Guy: . . . .
Girl: "I said I think I love you"
Guy: "um, thanks"
Girl: "I said I think I love you"
Guy: "...I think I love you to"
Girl: "he said he love's me!!!"
Guy: "um, I gotta go..."
Or he could be out camping with some friends . . .
yea....but even if he was camping with some friends....I dont think that its right not to call your girl. I think that if a guy does go..he should at least call and say "I am going to go camping so I most likely wont call you until I get back."
EVen if he did go camping.....for a month!
I mean....come on...talk about a major head trip for her when he didn't call.
Another questions CSN....Did you ever feel guilty for doing that to women? And if so...did you ever regret it?
I think for a lot of dudes, the chase is more exciting than the kill.
Not to be judgemental, but completely abandoning someone like that is a cowardly act. As martial artists, I would expect better from my brothers.
Did this guy practice the "arts"? (bet he didn't, huh?)
apologies on behalf of my side of the species.
h.o.
First i must say i am very highly honored to have my work reflecting on Serpents signature, its so cool :) thnx yo!
Margie, post the most favouritable ones :cool:
Just checking in, nothin to type now, going to order food :D
He is not a martial artist. He works on cranes or something. Do biggy. But you would think that some guys would feel bad at least. But then again..maybe not...if they just did not like the girl.
perhaps you should encourage your sister-friend to enroll at a local martial arts studio to meet some worthy guys. Not to mention she'd be able to kick his @$$ if he showed up again :p
Seriously, though, I know breakups can be tough, but the best remedy for her to get over the breakup is to meet some other guys.
Aren't there any studlies available at KFQG? :D
im sure there would be plenty available :D
dawood
The only poems I like generally begin with:
"There once was a man from Nantucket"
guilt yes, regret yes
curiously, it didn't always immediately ruin the relationship (which is my best guess for a subconscious motive)