I do, in fact. But I wasn't really referring to that specifically; it was just shorter to say than "gratifying a woman during that time of the month."Quote:
Originally posted by eulerfan
Hmm. I've never even met a guy who claimed to have his red wings. That's a completely different ball park, to me.
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But I don't know about it being that hard to learn a new lover's likes and dislikes. You just go slow and pay attention. At this point in my life, my lovers are very experienced as am I. Usually, the guy will lightly rub the backdoor a little bit. Obviously, he is seeing how receptive I am to this. At this point, I know what he's asking and gently say, "uh-uh." The hand journeys away from that area.
That's the approach I generally use with this sort of thing. But there's a /lot/ of potential likes and dislikes in sexuality, and you're unlikely to happen across all of them in one session. It takes time to figure out who likes what when and where. When you go out with someone new, there's always that sense of starting from square one again.
Not that that's always a bad thing...
Actually, though I do attend gaming conventions and used to regularly attend goth clubs, I've never actually picked up a woman from either. Although I have picked up a woman whilst talking after an actual game, on a few occasions.Quote:
Originally posted by red5angel
Fatherdog - you dated a few women who liked to be choked?! Stop picking them up at gaming conventions. Or your local Goth club....
Mostly I meet women through mutual friends. Considering my near-hermit lifestyle, it's just about my only option these days. :(