Apo :
"t's called the 'fundamental attribution error.' the tendency to attribute your own actions and thoughts"
How does this apply to me? I ain't out there screaming from the rooftops how I can use Qi to explode my enemies. I only try to observe.
"i suspect that the negative reactions stick in our head more forcefully, so if i go to a new site and post something, two people agree with me and two more tell me i'm retarded, i'm probably going to come away with a negative view of that experience."
This is a good explanation.
"a question of whether you attribute their behavior to circumstances that might be changed"
I don't see anything changes. The status of MMA might go down or up, but I see no light for CMA. It's going down with no real big hopes for the future. If there is change, things will only decline for CMA. Lack of unity, apparent weakness and screcy cripple CMA at many times.
"or they tend to react a given way for a reason. and unless you're willing to look for those reasons, you're not looking carefully enough."
I don't see the reason, that does not mean I have not looked for a reason , do you have a reason?
"probably best to view your experience at that BJJ school as meeting a bunch of trolls. their behavior comes from the same place as troll behavior on the internet. and it's no more reflective of the entirety of MMA than the various kung fu trolls here have been of CMA."
I shudder to think they are all that bad - the fact remains that if I want BJJ style Newaza, I will have to do Judo as there is no other place of that type in the Area. (Unless I somehow get up the money/time to travel to the city to study at the Gracie school. An idea which Merry suggested.
"p.s. i'm a fan of fencing myself. don't have nearly the experience you do, mind you."
Whats your weapon?
Dog -
"dre, I don't think it is really fair to judge every single BJJ school on the basis of one bad experience. I'm sure you could find some pretty screwy TMA schools too... (black dragon fighting society for instance). That doesn't mean they are all bad."
I don't think said that, or that I mean that. My orrigional statement is that this behavior is more prevelent/acceptable. Not that everyone is that way.
" I agree that MMA is badly marketed, but if it leads to fighters actually making a little bit of money after they pay their medical bills and gym fees it can't be all bad. "
Maybe they are focusing on the wrong markets - the US maybe isn't ready for it, Asia might be more welcoming.
"bashing and politics were common"
Weak organization and bashing are two different things. KF in general has very weak governing bodies. Not like WTF for example. Apparently we have opposite expereinces.