I have an acquaintance living in Manhattan who is looking to start martial arts - as he says,
"I would like to learn something that will teach me good self-defense skills and keep me in good shape. I do not want to injure myself and be beat-up in the process. I'm not very flexible.I've done weight training for the last 7yrs and am not used to contorting my body or doing leg splits."
Now personally I have a predilition for pushing him towards Hsing-I, but not living in the big city, I'd rather point him at a quality & reputable instructor than pick a name out of the phone book.
He was thinking of tai chi, but suspects it would take longer than he'd like to be functional. So, that would restrict it to teachers of whatever style, who while into the early introduction of applicable fighting skills, handle their students with care & delicacy.
Sorry for the pickiness!!
I appreciate your input.