"and after an evening of pounding mitts, a heavy bag, etc. your hands still feel sore (and you're got wraps on!). "
Eh? I never go at my bag with gloves on, unless I accidentally cut my hand on the d@mn "everlast" label. Hands dont ever really hurt afterwards either.... Never ever wrap my fists to hit the bag. Takes away from developing wrist strength. (+ chances are I wont be wearing wraps in a fight.)
"In choosing your dwelling, know how to keep to the ground.
In cultivating your mind, know how to dive in the hidden depths.
In dealing with others, know how to be gentle and kind.
In speaking, know how to keep your words.
In governing, know how to maintain order.
In transacting business, know how to be efficient.
In making a move, know how to choose the right moment.
If you do not strive with others, you will be free from blame."
-Lao Tzu, Tao Teh Ching
An eye for an eye leaves the world blind.