Vash, it depends on what part of your back you're working with your rows. If you keep your arms up even with your shoulders, you will be working more traps, rear delts, and rhomboids. If your arms go lower, you shift most of the emphasis to the lats.
AFAIK, reverse flys are safe, but if you have a back problem you might want to do them lying on a bench.
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