we don't always get an opportunity to grab per se--
i feel that it's best to be sticky and listen well and when the opponent is in a place where he or she doesn't have any room to move, then one can apply more strength/power to the hold. if you come on too strong at first, you've committed to an action and have left yourself in the postion of no room to move.
Originally Posted by Lee Chiang Po
You then walk backwards, forcing him off his feet and then drag him by the eye socket and lips. You can pull so hard that the lips tear away. You will never hear such screaming.