If someone of whom I was (or thought I was) in charge dies by a bullet from a gun, I don't say It's my fault Nor take responsibility, per se. I create a scene and misdirect attention to something obvious and slant my say so that I get sided-with and blame is cast to a secondary-ish cause (type thing).
Skip that you got married and better or worse. Skip that you are biological protospring to the off-spring. Skip alliances. You do without knowing. Have no faith. Think you can manage it because you think you are Not wrong~
When the Oops principle (made-up) occures...How do I shift the blame? Shurk responsibility...I don't mind gambling because I could win big--Fruit me, I didn't decide choosing to see the most likely failure. And especially not decide Willing to accept the repercussions of my actions...
My baby was killed. They did it. I had to kill, it was delf defense, I had No choice. They said s/he was so we had to beat 'em up for Honor...for Justice...[cough]for Vengence. [cough] for Spite. [cough] to appear Good. [cough]selfish/Greedy...
Abortion blues, up springs prochoice/prolife. Not an issue Our circles have their rules. We follow as we fear/feel/believe/. Life tends to seem to be pretty much, whatever whatever.
Someone being whatever whatever. That's a weapon. [the misdirect] Sympathize with me or you are a bad person and you'll look bad to others; ban the use of that and people don't get hurt like the example of my charge. [more an actual thought] One less thing for me to bother with since I lied them to legislate against. What else should I do now to make others do what I want, so I don't have to bother as much?
Who views a single sheet of 8½" by 11" paper as a Aid to hurt someone (attacker; unarmed (no tool in hand))?