Let her have it...should have swept the leg, lol...you know I always get hurt (not taking damage, just annoying bruises) play sparring with my wife or with kids, because I'm afraid to hurt them but they aren't afraid to hurt me.
It's just too difficult to spar someone when your actively trying to pull everything and they are trying to land everything, it makes all your moves awkward.
When I'm sparring the guys, we'll go as hard as we want, as long as I feel it's still sparring and there's not an intent for real injury. When I feel it's escalated and my sparring partner is gunning to hurt me for real, or knock me out, it has to move to fight mode...I immediately try to take them out to end the sparring match. It's too dangerous to spar with someone who is trying to fight you. You both got to be on the same page.
This is why a lot of instructors don't like to fight newbies. They are trying to teach and work with them, but often the new kid wants to feel like a tough guy, landing one on his teachers jaw.
You can say it's a big man and a small girl, but if she's trying to hit you for real and your pulling everything, it's going to make you look like an idiot, at your test no less...she may not have realized this, but it's disrespectful to go all out on a stronger opponent that's going easy for your benefit.
One of my biggest pet peeves, when I'm sparring someone with less experience, is when I throw a kick to their head and pull what could have easily been a knockout, only to have them grab the foot and try to sweep me.
You only get to do that once. If your too stupid to realize I could have took your head off, but didn't want to, then you take advantage of me when I half froze my leg in the air...next time it's not getting pulled.
I learned this the hard way at 14. I was sparring my instructor he left me an opening to see what I would do, I had my hands down, he threw a backfist and pulled it...I stepped in and punched him in the chin. We did this 3 times, each time he was trying to get me to realize I wasn't guarding my head, but I was so stoked to have a chance to punch him, I wasn't even paying attention. The third time I stepped in to take advantage he knocked me out with the backfist. One of the best lessons I ever got, I'll never forget it.