Greetings..
Exhibitionism is not a healthy state of mind my friend. In any case, even though some women involved in the production of pornography(and i'll agree that this is the case with most today) enjoy it... there is still the harm that the material itself is causing within the psyches of the viewers. Your stubborness is causing you to ignore fact.
"Exhibitionism is not a healthy state of mind my friend".. this is a blanket statement that is signature of extremism.. Exhibitionism has many many aspects, one of which can be called "porn", and.. even then, that statement neglects to account for many situations that can be contrary to the assertion.. "Your stubborness is causing you to ignore fact.".. no, i am simply examining many facts, addressing them as well as i can (see previous posts where i agree that there is some harm and should be controlled).. Adversely, you assert baseless remarks regarding stubborness and ignoring of "fact".. on the otherhand, i am allowing for several conditions to exist in harmony, those that can (and do) have a healthy psyche and are capable of viewing sensual material without fundamental damage (allowing for the broad fundamental definition of "porn").. and, allowing that there is obviously some "porn" that is simply offensive to human nature, degrading to participants at any level, and with no redeeming social value.. to which i say eliminate that stuff and make it so prohibitively punitive as to eliminate the majority of its potential (we will never completely control human nature, no matter how deviant)..
Thus, i am recommending a change in habit for the health of one's mind body and soul. If you choose to ignore it, fine. However, that does not change the fact that i am speaking to real risks to one's overall health. The psychological effects of porn-viewing are inseperable from one's social perspective, however. Maybe you should check out some books about pornography and its effects rather than engaging in endless justification for just about anything.
First, you needn't recommend a "change in habit" for me.. i have no interest in "porn".. it is notable, however, that you seem to have good insights as to where to find "porn" (ie: "Thus you have pornography readily available on the web... many websites not requiring age verification and using themes from children's entertainment. There's "Harry Potter" websites, there used to be a website with a White House theme.").. Oh, and i take great care of the many aspects of my health.. Second you toss around the word "fact" as if you are its sole proprietor, i will determine my own set of conditions and standards for truth, thanks.. "Maybe you should check out some books about pornography and its effects rather than engaging in endless justification for just about anything." i don't endlessly justify anything, i offer alternative perspectives.. my interest isn't "porn", its enticing people to engage in open-minded dialogue.. and, frankly, if i wanted a sermon there's plenty of that elsewhere.. "endless justification for just about anything.".. Now, there's a standard political tactic, if you say i said it, then others might believe it came from me.. it did not, it is your own perspective used in an attempt to negatively prejudice a message that doesn't support your fundamental views..
As i have stated, i delight in open-minded intelligent dialogue.. i welcome alternative perspectives.. but, i am not amused by people that twist and misrepresent that which i have posted.. To be clear, my reasoning in posting on this thread was to challenge fixed and stagnant notions of the definition of "porn", to entice people to examine other perspectives.. as it evolved, the thread took on certain fundamentalist characteristics, and i hoped to open up dialogue that might illustrate the possibilities of moving toward a "middle ground", where common sense supercedes dogma.. (we may get there, yet).. BUT, in no way do i advocate hardcore "porn", destructive imagery or behavior, or that which can be easily identified as "filth".. and, it would be irresponsible to suggest that i do.. So, in closing, open-minded dialogue is welcome and can be productive.. but, sermonizing, soap-boxing, and dogmatic regurgatations diminish whatever value may be intrinsic to one's "core message"..
Be well..
TaiChiBob.. "the teacher that is not also a student is neither"