im embarrassed or maybe i dont want people not to like me after wards (like in the big hit lol) . Wtf is wrong with me.
You know in general im a really really nice guy, and i take a lot of crap but sometimes i take crap and i dont know why, i was talking about this with a mate last night, and he said that he did a job for someone, didnt get paid, he wanted to start ****ing shouting his ass off at him and get medieval,
But because the guy is related to him, and because he didnt want to make a scene he didnt do anything and feels like a pr1ck now because he got stiffed, now i know this guy when he was a kid his parents always used to tell him dont make a scene be quiet etc etc. Consequently he has such a temper he could beat someone to death on the street but he couldnt talk to this guy quietly.
I think i suffer from this too, cause ive been semi treated like this before and i didnt standup for what i wanted, not wanted to make a scene or maybe telling myself its not important. When in reality the guy who ****ed me over should be the guy getting embarassed of having nerve to be like that.
Now on the other hand if someone annoys me on the road i get a wild fit of road rage and i start swearing so hard i could beat the guy to a pulp. Obviously not if the guy understands he made a mistake and apologises.
Why the hell am i like that, i would rather not be road rage influenced or get ****ed so easily, and be calm with things like that , that dont matter, but be able to have a firm word with someone when i need to instead of immediately turning into a raving loon, its like i only have 2 modes.
Like last time one of my gf friends , was talking to me sayign that she should be more important to my gf than i am, even though she has known her for 1/10 of the time, and i just said to her the full **** you who the **** do you think you are. In retrospect i was like omg ! I cant believe for something so small i got so vexed.
Btw i get angry about 1nce ever 1-3 months so its not a common thing, im not mentally unstable ok well maybe a little but thats to do with me not with the way i behave to wards ppl :P
Your thoughts views and if you are like this too would be appreciated