CSK:
I've heard the rationale you give for only wanting to spend your time doing wing chun many times before. Don't let them past your by-jong and everything will be just fine. Don't let someone grab you in a headlock, or whatever.
And whatever could be many different things.
And you say that I take all of this too seriously. But perhaps what you fail to understand is where I live: Brooklyn, New York...(and have lived here my whole life). And Brooklyn, if it were a separate city - would be the 4th largest city in the United States. But Brooklyn is only one of 5 boroughs that make up New York City.
And 10 million people live in this city. And virtually anything can (and does) happen here all the time.
I know how easy it could be to be grabbed when your back is turned...or from the side...or punched, kicked, headlocked, attacked by multiple opponents, have weapons like knives pulled on you, or bottles, or baseball bats, or even guns.
And I have a pretty good inkling of just how many people walking around this town may have trained in boxing, wrestling, karate, kung fu, kickboxing, jiu jitsu, etc.
At one point when my school was located on Broadway, between Walker and White Streets, in lower Manhattan, for example...a street no more than maybe 60-70 yards long...and I was on that block for about 12 years or more...
at one point, including my school - there were 4 different martial art schools on the block.
On one city block!!!
And besides...you don't have to live in NYC to understand what I'm getting at.
Which doesn't even address another point...no matter where you live...even the best of wing chun people might find themselves on the floor in the middle of a fight. Didn't it happen to William Cheung in Germany, back in 1986?
Wasn't Boztepe, anothe rname in wing chun...on the floor with him.
Wasn't Boztepe in a headlock at one point.
Do you really want to put all your eggs in the basket that says that wing chun
alone will always stop a really good wrestler, sambo, or BJJ guy from taking you down?
Maybe you don't care. Maybe you think the odds of you ever having to fight a tall real good boxer type are very slim. And maybe they are. So maybe you'll never have to find out if you could close on him without eating a serious left hook or a rear cross to the face or head.