I got no horse in this race, other than being curious to see the fight.
ST - If you're so determined to do this, and are worried about Abel's backpeddalling - simple solution, remove the two restrictions he is using.
1. So he wants it in Nov. - fair enough, he initially agreed to Sept/Oct - now he's changed his mind - why not simply accommodate him? Yes I read your post about having other fights... but wait, I have a solution to that one too...
2. Remove the whole "it has to be a pro fight" clause, because blind freddy can see it's not gonna wash.
Very simple - fix a date in November to fly to Cali (like you said you're happy to) and kick his ass behind closed doors, with several people filming it. He said he wants to fight you - just say "OK - I'll be there in November to kick your ass".