OT: Is Kung Fu Good Women Deterrent?

[David Jamieson]

I think if the current pope hitthree hotties after lunch, they'd be looking for a new pope by 1 o:clock.

he's an old dude. lol

[neilhytholt]

Getting laid doesn't have to be a challenge at all. I know how important being a parent is and I know that there is probably a lot going on in your house right now. But let me ask you this: were the three girls hot? Yo, you may have just been able seriously nurture the ol one eyed monk if you know what I mean. If the girls were shallow that usually equates to EASY TO SCREW. You may have just passed up a wonderful two martini lunch followed by a three yuppi hottie buffet. We need to discuss your priorities here. I mean you are single, right? I don't care who you are, if the pope had a chance to hit three hottie well off singles in one day I bet he would....okay, mabye not the pope, but you get the picture. Single father of two does not mean DEAD TO THE TOUCH. You gotta get a little recreation in your life. I read in a post on another thread that you are not interested in finding a new wife...well, go ahead and have fun then. Don't kick the girls out of your bed for getting crackers on the sheets-nobody is perfect and you don't have to marry them.

You have to understand that after my divorce I don't see women as hot sex objects anymore, more like wolves in sheep's clothing who will if given the chance completely destroy your life without a thought.

In fact, after finding out how bad a lot of women like my ex are at cheating, and all the STDs out there, it's so bad that honestly I'm pretty much turned off to sex now.

I can't even think about kissing a woman without worrying that she's got mouth herpes or mouth papilloma virus.

[Hard Fists]

I think you need to begin by relaxing a little bit. Women can tell if your not interested in them, perhaps that's the reason the girls got up from the table. Sounds like you have some healing to do from your divorce, if you don't feel like rushing things, don't. I know I couldn't just jump right in if my wife suddenly took off and I had the kids and myself to worry about all of the time.

But beware, the way you are talking, even if you don't see it now, may wind you up married again before you know it. Which may not be a bad thing if the woman is nice and you really want to do it. Just don't psyche yourself out man.

Personnaly, I think you need to get laid. Laid well. Perhaps a good ol BJJ for a happy finish. It may change your mind about the sex object thing unless you want to switch sides or something...which is cool too if that's what you want. As for STDs, wrap your jimmy man.

[neilhytholt]

I think you need to begin by relaxing a little bit. Women can tell if your not interested in them, perhaps that's the reason the girls got up from the table. Sounds like you have some healing to do from your divorce, if you don't feel like rushing things, don't. I know I couldn't just jump right in if my wife suddenly took off and I had the kids and myself to worry about all of the time.

But beware, the way you are talking, even if you don't see it now, may wind you up married again before you know it. Which may not be a bad thing if the woman is nice and you really want to do it. Just don't psyche yourself out man.

Personnaly, I think you need to get laid. Laid well. Perhaps a good ol BJJ for a happy finish. It may change your mind about the sex object thing unless you want to switch sides or something...which is cool too if that's what you want. As for STDs, wrap your jimmy man.

Wrapping the jimmy doesn't cover the jimmy entirely and you can't do a lot of things.

I don't really think you are understanding my take on this. I'm kindof shell-shocked to women now. I see them and I see disaster. I think about kissing them and I see herpes sores and mouth warts.

IMHO the only safe sex is no sex. Literally.

But on the bonus side, I'm totally busy with the kids, so I don't have time for women or sex anyway.

[David Jamieson]

The hate is strong with this one...lol

dude, unless you switch teams, get over it

[neilhytholt]

The hate is strong with this one...lol

dude, unless you switch teams, get over it

You don't get it. It's not hate.

You know, I used to do a lot of offroad bike riding. And sometimes I'd have extremely bad crashes, lots of road rash, etc., and it was like a physical thing. It was hard to get back on the bike.

Once I broke my arm and it took me about 18 months before I even wanted to look at a bike again.

So with the women thing. I just don't want to deal with them in that way anymore. That's the bottom line. They are not sex objects to me. They are just people.

[David Jamieson]

dude, a lot of what you are saying is indicative of mysogynistic tendencies.

but, i guess it's hard to look at yourself and what you say without subjectivity..if not impossible.

[neilhytholt]

dude, a lot of what you are saying is indicative of mysogynistic tendencies.

but, i guess it's hard to look at yourself and what you say without subjectivity..if not impossible.

Puleeze ... I'm not a misogynist. All I'm saying is I don't want to deal with a woman romantically. How hard is that to understand?

WHATEVER.

I don't want to sleep with men either because I'm not sexually attracted to them. In fact, I think the entire idea with sex with men is absolutely disgusting. They're totally hairy and gross.

So does that make me a man-hater too? Does it make me h0m0phobic? Does it make me a closet h0m0phobe? Or a closet h0m0? No.

I've been through all those arguments before. They're fallacious reasoning.

[BruceSteveRoy]

i would say give it time. you said yourself after you broke your arm it took 18 months to look at a bike again. but you did look at a bike again. it will take longer with the women thing most likely but eventually you will get over it. from what you are saying if you got into a relationship of any kind (more than friendship) it would be disasterous. of course from what you are saying you dont want one so i guess its a moot point. As for the mouth herpes or whatever, you should probably not worry about it. you would see if they were having an outbreak of it and if there is no open sore you won't contract it. i dont know about mouth warts but the HPV is carried by lots and lots and lots of men that dont even know it. it is innocuous to men. it only is dangerous to women bc it leads to cervical cancer. i never heard of it in the mouth though. dont know where i am going with this so i'll stop now.

[neilhytholt]

i would say give it time. you said yourself after you broke your arm it took 18 months to look at a bike again. but you did look at a bike again. it will take longer with the women thing most likely but eventually you will get over it. from what you are saying if you got into a relationship of any kind (more than friendship) it would be disasterous. of course from what you are saying you dont want one so i guess its a moot point. As for the mouth herpes or whatever, you should probably not worry about it. you would see if they were having an outbreak of it and if there is no open sore you won't contract it. i dont know about mouth herpes but the HPV is carried by lots and lots and lots of men that dont even know it. it is innocuous to men. it only is dangerous to women bc it leads to cervical cancer. i never heard of it in the mouth though. dont know where i am going with this so i'll stop now.

Thanks for the advice, but you can transfer herpes even without out breaks, as they point out on those T.V. ads. The lack of outbreaks just lessens the chance.

You know, 25% of women and 20% of men have herpes-2. Did you know that? Check the CDC stats if you don't believe me.

As for the HPV innocuous, you still get warts. I guess warts aren't that bad, but they are still disgusting.

Basically, IMHO people place too much importance on sex and romance. Most people evidently are so weak that they cannot be without sex or some romance in their life, and they constantly pine for it.

But it's just sex. It's just procreation. It's not really that important to life compared to eating, sleeping, friends and all that.

As I get older I guess I get more conservative but IMHO all those prohibitions against adultery and all that were to deal with these very problems that we're facing now as a society.

IMHO as a society we are sick now. People jump from one relationship to another without thought, without thinking about the repercussions or impacts. So basically I've decided that I'm done. Once my kids are grown up, I might consider a relationship but I highly doubt I'm going to want a romantic relationship when I'm in my late 50s or 60s.

[neilhytholt]

Anyways I'm sorry I brought this entire topic up. It just seemed interesting that those women would think martial arts was stupid.

But I don't want to get into the why doesn't Neil get remarried or date thing AGAIN.

You know, people can accept h0m0sexuals.

People can accept heterosexuals.

Why can't people accept asexuals? You know, monks and nuns used to go without sex. They weren't all pedophiles like some minority of priests.

Most people, especially older women and married men, LOL, have times they don't get sex. Why do you think romance novels and porn sells so well?

[Banjos_dad]

A woman who does not understand the value of a man who can and will kick ass when the situation calls for it, is fortunate enough to have been well-insulated from the world that is out there.
Here in albuquerque where i live, it's kind of rough in most parts of town. Add to that the preponderance of untrained loudmouth idiots and superficial gang banger wannabees, it is what you might call a hostile environment. I learned the need for self defense skill here. When i hear people claim that in today's modern society with cell phones and 911 emergency service, firearms and modern police strategies, 'there is no need for actual fighting skills,' it marks the person who said that as either inexperienced, clueless or one of those people that will just say anything no matter how senseless.
Find someone with enough life experience to value what YOU bring to the table.
If a woman doesn't value a person's training, perhaps it is because she needs someone to dominate, a push-over.
There are a lot worse things to experience than being passed over by some soft rich broad because you're not wishy-washy enough

other than that brove, all you can do is sift thru the marbles in search of a jewel. they are out there, you have to seek them out.

[neilhytholt]

See, that's the thing. These women don't value men. They don't think about the fact that men build their houses. Men move their furniture. Men are primarily the ones who do the engineering, technical things, etc.

To them, men are nothing but hood ornaments, I guess.

I would tell them that I value women as the ones who have babies and usually take care of them, but then I would be being sexist. LOL

[Water Dragon]

Bro, you need counseling. Seriously.

Of course women respect men; a lot. If they're not respecting you, you need to figure out why that is. I have a pretty good idea just from reading this thread, but I don't think you do.

I'll tell you this though. It's not the women that's the problem.

[SPJ]

Friend zone may not be a bad idea to start. It is not a strickly enforced zoning code. is it not?

single mom or single dad with kids dating.

are we looking for somebody we may get along with for the long term?

or are we shopping for a model dad or supermom for the kids?

kids will leave us one day. the step parenthood and step children are a whole different ball game.

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