WHY
"Why" is the most important question in any language, because it is the hardest to answer. Who, what, when, and where are all questions of physical time and space, easily measured, scientifically quantifiable. "Why" is not measurable, unknowable in that its application is purely subjective. One my attempted to infer the "why" of someone else through empathy, but more often that not that person does not understand their own "why". The Merovingian of the Matrix trilogy said "Why is power". "Why" is what drive the Who, what, when and where, and why we must find the truth of our own "why's" in every experience we have. Knowing that we do something based on an emotion, triggered buy some past experience allows us to affect change with in our selves, and control our "why", just as knowing about others allows us to manipulate their"why".
Asking our selves Why is a means of Self-evaluation and allows us to control our own evolution, by allowing us to concentrate on whats really important.
SELF DEFENSE
Do you Train for Self-defense? I think most of us Don't train for that reason. Who here really expects to get into a fight in the future. I, having moved on from the bullies of the school yard, find the my self having to face some form of random violence to be in the realm of highly unlikely. If that were my purpose and I never had to use my knowledge for self-defense then I would never get to see the fruits of my labor and my time would have been wasted. I know I wouldn't invest this much of my time and effort training for something that might happen. If that's what I was here for I should be spending an equal amount of time studying defensive driving.
I think we train for self-defense because it is the expression of our art, and with out it the "truth" of what we do changes from, Martial arts, to mere Performance arts.
So, for me Self-defense is not the why I study, just the why these arts are Martial.
CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT
Do you train for Character development? Do you train because you feel your are lacking in some ways in Humility, Respect, Discipline, Morals? These are all things that can be gained in greater quantities through the practice of the Martial arts, and through the practice of just about anything else. It is not the Martial arts them selves which bring these qualities out but our dedication to its practice. These things are not actively taught in the Martial arts. I have never seen a curriculum that had patience written as a rank requirement. Because they are not actively taught as most school, they are merely a by product of our training and there for can not be our motivation for studying the Martial arts. If it were then our time would be better spent studying Philosophy.
COMPETITION
Some my study Martial arts as an outlet for their competitive spirit. But unless your are studying a Martial arts whose application is pure Martial sport, like Modern wushu, then that couldn't be your reason for Studying Martial arts. If you believe that competition is your reason for Studying Martial arts, then you must ask yourself why you chose the Martial arts as your outlet instead of some other individual sport. I believe people who chose Martial arts as their competitive outlet had other greater underlying reasons for doing so.
HEALTH
Do you believe you study the Martial arts for its health benefits? The study of the Martial arts can certainly have it's benefits on health and fitness, but so can a dozen other activities. So, we again are led back to the "Why" choose Martial arts. How many pot bellied western masters have you seen?
CONNECTION
I believe we train in the Martial arts because we are all great big NERDS! We train for the connection it gives us to ancient cultures and histories of the world. Allowing our selves to be immersed in the exotic rituals of the far away and long gone. We train because it makes us feel connected to something greater and older than our selves. We train to be apart of that tradition.
We train for the illusions of personal empowerment it gives us, allowing us to play out our childhood fantasies of being great heroes who could beat the crap out of the bad guys. We train because we grew up on tales of Knights, Swashbucklers, Detectives, and Super heroes.
CONCLUSION
Self-defense is what we train
Character development is just a byproduct of out commitment to training
Competition and Health can be found through a hundred other outlets.
I train because deep down I'm just a nerdy kid reading tales of valor, and pretending to battle the monsters in my closet.
Why do you Train?