Greetings..
As has been stated.. "times are changing".. The issue is that there are two groups of thought, one wants to preserve the hardcore blood and guts fighting.. the otherwants to expand that experience to include more cultural concepts..
The "old fellas", the Chinese, lived in the culture that supported their art, here, in the US, we don't.. it might be appropriate, if we really want to understand the art, to also understand the culture..
The great armies no longer clash on the battlefield with hand-to-hand combat being a necessity or even a likelihood.. we have the time and opportunity to refine the arts, to build a character and social benefit.. you betcha, there were some unsavory characters "back in the day", ruffians and thugs.. great fighters, but.. as willing to start a fight as to practice a defensive stragety..
Here's the rub, and it's a big one.. we can preserve the "old ways", but we will also preserve a mean-spirited aggression.. it is the nature of seasoned, combat hardened martial artists, to test their skills.. whether by agreed upon contests/competitions or in the streets, the contest has a winner and a loser.. and human nature desires to be the winner.. from that desire it is observable that people will resort to means beyond what the situation demands to insure their desires are met..
To move beyond the inherent violence associated with TCMA requires a different way of thinking, where winning is not determined by defeating, and possibly maiming, the other player(s).. Forms, can afford a level of training that negates some of the potential for injury and egotistical friction.. MA will never be without direct physical competition, but.. it makes sense to diminish it somewhat, to build a model that moves us in a direction of less violent resolutions to disagreements.. There are those whose spirits demand that they test themselves and others to validate their self-expectations, so be it.. but, it is contrary to the premise of "self-defense", to use unregulated violence as a test of the Arts..
I hope that ultimately civilization will evolve beyond the need to express its frustrations through violence, to move beyond combat as a resolution to personal or cultural differences.. where, someday, forms would be judged as Art and not critiqued as ineffective for destroying an opponent.. BUT, until that day, there is wisdom in developing specific skills for self-defense, hard skills, tested skills.. We should be just a little more understanding of the Art of Martial Arts, give it a chance to be an option for future generations.. a chance to let violence slip into the shadows of antiquity, a chance for great strength, great skill, and great art to evolve in a society that rejects violence as an option.. without that option, we are doomed to project violence into the future, a recurring cycle of humanity's quest to destroy itself..
Be well..
TaiChiBob.. "the teacher that is not also a student is neither"