Murder, rape, robbery, assault, etc. are part of us as well yet we discourage these actions because we understand them to be destructive behaviors. Aggression fulfills a purpose, it is an emotional reaction to a fearful circumstance, but that does not make it an optimal behavior. I once again refer you to the writings of REAL masters, such as Musashi, Yagyu and Takuan and the example of Shoju.Agression is a part of us, and as such it has its place and deserves some honour for what it contributes to the whole.
Key to what you say is immaturity. Immaturity makes all of our emotions difficult to use, with difficult results. With maturity comes the skill to use all of our gifts - including agression, which is one of our most valuable attributes.
You have changed the context of my comments. They specifically referred to REAL altercations with REAL bad guys who do not play by rules. They fight to win using diabolical means and are not concerned with the consequences. To them prevailing is the goal, not technique, the deeper insights of combat, or Tao. They will blindside you, gang up on you, and use any number of dirty underhanded means to get the advantage. They do not care about being fair or fighting you man to man.As for REAL life - MMA int he ring is real - trainign on your own is real... real is whatever you are doing. Not every fight involves a gun, and if you are going to have knowledge, best to have the best, most useful knowledge.
The best knowledge in these circumstances is not technique, but perception and psychology. This allows one to avoid or defuse the situation before physical means become necessary.
One can never be prepared for someone who breaks the rules of how we THINK an altercation is supposed to transpire. The illusion of being prepared or capable is ones greatest weakness, not lack of ability.
I agree with examining our own deficiencies. I am merely taking the opportunity here to point out for you what you presume to point out for others. Think of me as a mirror of your own behaviors. I have not complained about anyone pointing out their perceived deficiencies of me and I have not presumed more than you presume for yourself. I have not commented in any manner other than mirroring your own comments back towards you. I have just as much right to point out what I perceive to be your shortcomings as you presume to point out for others and I accept your right to do the same to me. I will reply as my level of interest in your comments guides me.Well, Scott, I have heard words like that before, but there's no way to say it without it applying to you as well - here you are, pointing out the deficencies in others!
Scott, it is ten times harder to be honest abpout ourselves than about others - and one of the ways we learn to be honest with ourselves is by practicing critical thinking "against" others, and then, if we have the courage and insight, applying it to ourselves. That's not an easy process - so, I would say let people follow the path of that asit unfolds for them - it's not an easy thing to do.
Asessing the merits or lack thereof of various styles is no great sin, Scott - you're over-reacting in my view. Critical assessment is good - the world could do with more of it, on every level.
I must disagree with you that one of the ways to find our own deficiencies is to practice critical thinking against others. The way to discover our own deficiencies is to examine our SELVES. Examine our own mind and abilities and test these, whether physical, emotional or intellectual, in the world of social interaction. We then assess the results and question our methods seeking more efficient and capable techniques for achieving our purpose.
You seem to be persistent in redefining my comments according to a context that is not explicit in my writing. Clearly and repeatedly I have stated: REAL world fighting with REAL world bad guys. You were the one who repeatedly criticized CMA for not fighting and winning in real combat to demonstrate their effectiveness. I have merely pointed out that your own preconceived notions fall prey to the same flaw. If anyone wants to really demonstrate their prowess they must not only fight in duels, but engage in REAL world encounters, and a lot of them. That means with people who do not fight according to any preconceived pattern using any means necessary to win. I am stating, apply the same critical view you have towards CMA to yourself. It is as simple as that.Well, winning is irrelevent in the case of searching for knowledge. I have had many competitions with others where they have taught me something by getting me with a technique.
Other than that, I'm afraid people don't usually give you a warning that they will attack you, giving you a chance to get an equiliser ready. If you are saying that what matters to you is to win, so if you were fighting a boxer int he training hall you would iron bar him over the head because that is more "real" then we are in to very different things.
Well, there's more to life than beating people up.
I have made no claims that have not been illustrated through real life examples. This validates my points as worth considering within the context of REAL fighting. I am not addressing simple duels here although one would enjoy numerous benefits within this arena as well.