That was nice of her to leave you something to remember her by.

I learned that in the real world you have to treat a woman just like any other threat and use appropriate force, or you could be in a world of hurt. I also learned that by trying to be too nice I almost got both of us more injured than I had intended, not to mention it took more work than if I had just leg kicked her or gave her a good slap to the ear to set up the control.