Not cool for me
Regarding martial arts in general, I always thought that it was "cool." Watching old Jackie Chan films and movies like"Bloodsport" bring back fond memories. Even though I thought it looked cool, I was never going to consider taking up any type of training.
What changed my mind was that I was physically threatened by someone who trained in TCM some time ago. The opposing party had lost a verbal argument against me and the only recourse was a physical threat. It put a bad taste in my mouth about "Kung Fu" in general (at the time I didn't know as much about it as I do now) just because I associated it with that type of mentality. In time I realize that not all Southern stylists have a thug mentality. I find that nothing is really ever a certainty anymore. Just take everything one at a time (unless I am doing multiple opponent drills )
This experience has left an indelible scar (based on circumstances that need not be mentioned).
Now, in my "old age" I am still weary of people who consider themselves martial artists. There is so much instruction available on any type of art that most people nowadays have a good amount of access to it (especially those I deem unworthy).
Now, I find that the younger generation is in dire need of some humility.
Cordially yours,
冠木侍 (KS)
_____________________________________________
"Jiu mo gwai gwaai faai dei zau" (妖魔鬼怪快哋走) -- The venerable Uncle Chan
"A fool with a sword is more dangerous than any weapon..."
“If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.”--John Quincy Adams
"If you have an unconquerable calmness, you can overcome the enemy without force" -Bushi Matsumura