Originally Posted by
David Jamieson
Also, if you call a woman "pretty" she'll remember it for a few minutes and not take it to heart, but if you tell her she's ugly, she'll take that to heart and remember it for a lifetime.
There's a Buddhist phrase that says "Women learn from the outside in and men from the inside out".
That whole think about women's intuition? I think it actually is more applicable to men. Men are highly intuitive and demand it in design in fact. As most things are designed by men, it would seem that intuition is a component for most things.
Back to the Buddhist thing, it seems correct to me because I find women will feel better if they are told something positive about themselves or supported with words in regards to how they look. Check out a femme friends facebook. You will see that most of the comments on pictures of her about how pretty or good she looks are coming from other women. As if they are practicing an economy of encouragement with each other.
The less physically attractive she is, the more comments she'll receive about her prettiness from her supportive friends who would like it back in spades.
The entire absurd world of fashion is fueled by indecision and fickleness that creates a need for change in viewing environments (paint this room, paper that, get a new lamp etc etc).
These things tend to be exclusive to women and gay men. I suppose it will get better eventually.
You have teabagged the correct sir.
This is why women can never achieve Satori !!
Psalms 144:1
Praise be my Lord my Rock,
He trains my hands for war, my fingers for battle !