Good post, and nice to hear from you and I agree 100%.
For me, I have no allusions of grandeur. I highly doubt you'll see me on the UFC.
I've always studied and trained. I became bored and discouraged with TCM tournaments and then MMA became common.... too common to ignore. So I wanted to see if I could compete there amateur. And I couldn't so I trained harder, improved, learned, and then I could.
Now I'm going through the same steps professionally.
If I had a wife and kid and house I don't know if I would bother, especially if I was getting books published like some people we know (have them both on my shelf)
One does not have to go out to fight. But honestly, the biggest martial art lessons I've learned have come from it. It's not something someone can teach you, just things you learn. And its all kinds of things.
I do take issues though with men who have no gone the distance --- that alone requires something unteachable -- and pass themselves off as an authority on a subject they are really unfamiliar with. Complete bums win street fights everyday. That's no test of skill. Skill is beating someone good who is also trained and prepared to fight.
The truth is, it's mostly Kung Fu and exotic stylist that get away with that. Because styles like Judo and BJJ and MM are open and competitive. They seek out competition and comparison so its highly standardized. As a member you can go anywhere in the world and know where you fit in.
I'm not saying these guys aren't good. I'm not saying they are good. I'm saying its very unclear what's up with them but its clear they didn't see the need to compare their material with their day's standard. They're certainly not up to today's standard.
Who would advertise an untested, 20 year old computer? Better yet, who would buy it?