lol, don't pay any attention to Bawang...he likes to joke.
what Frost said, plus:
the teacher is far more important than a style.
don't get hung up on a style. find the best teacher you can and learn whatever he's teaching...if he's good enough (and not saying he's got to have put people in the olympics or the UFC...just good at teaching what he's doing, there are hundreds of good teachers out there...sadly, there are 1000's of bad ones) then what he teaches will translate to what any other good teacher will teach you.
you do need to commit to a program/schedule...you'll not get very far just training 'whenever you have the time'.
you could list the available schools in your area...chances are someone here will have an opinion...
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It's simpler than you think.
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