I have experienced that side of "Chinese culture", though IMO it's not restricted to the Chinese or anything else.And I guess you have no interest in these terms because you may have not experienced that side to the chinese culture?
I have an interest in it, and I guess the "terms" (WTF?) ... an interest in seeing it wither and die because in my experience it is unhealthy and stunts growth.
You can keep your other naive "insights" into my character and motivations. I have been teaching MA and developing students for a lot longer than you. IMO the model of "team building" you follow is toxic and counterproductive to growth and I ain't going near it. I have too much respect for students intelligence to lay that load of barf on them.
Kung Fu Family ... I always get reminded of "Manson family".