@GoldenBrain: Thanks man, good tips. I'm 5'8", between 135-140lbs...before starting kung fu and getting mabu thighs, I weighed 125 lbs for years. BTW I do smile a lot when sparring, it's a game after all.
@everyone: Thanks. Seems like iron body conditioning is a must...but that's going to take some time to make a difference, so any other suggestions to keep going in the meantime are appreciated.
I know there's been a thread on sparring gear before...When I spar I usually just wear cup, mouthguard, light shin pads and mma gloves (or nothing for light sparring). Sometimes I will wear boxing gloves for heavier hitting. Any thoughts on chest guards? Would have saved my ribs this last time, but I hate the lack of mobility. I also want to know when I get hit.