Originally Posted by
YouKnowWho
You should ask yourself a simple question. Is your goal to be good in
- fighting, or
- presenting your style?
My goal is very clear. I care about how good that I can fight. I don't care about whether I can fight like my style or not.
Sparring is like to throw a new born baby into the river. That new born baby has to learn how to "float" first before that baby should worry about "how to swim perfectly".
There are 2 different ways to train MA.
1. You learn a style. You then try to spar by using that style (you learn how to swim perfectly on the dry land, you then jump into water).
2. You spar. Find out what tools that you need. You then go to fill up your toolbox (you jump into water, learn how to float. You then find a coach to teach you how to swim perfectly).
If you use the
- 1st approach, you will become the slave of your style.
- 2nd approach, you will become the master of all styles. If a coach can't teach everything that you want to know, you can go to another coach.