Unconfertable question

[shaolin10H8]

Something has been botherin me for a while, what would you my Kung Fu brothers and sisters think about a sifu havin close relations with da female students ? A student (guy) I spoke to said it was a regular thing with his sifu that he would regular have close relationships with thm where he could.
Bu a blind eye was turned so to speak.
Personaly i think its way outa line and that theres is an should be a clear line between master and studen.
Respcts all

[curenado]

Well you're going to find extremes so it will be a topic. My master took up with one of the students in 1977. That was the only time I know of and they lived together a couple years, so it wasn't like "tagging".
Of course western ethics says no. I have noticed tho that buddhists aren't celibate and often have more eastern ideas, but I don't know if there even is an official policy?

But as a "spur posse", bagging 'em thing of course it's gross. Look at the guys doing it.
That doesn't mean you will hear much talking about it because of the large number of ma's you will find that aren't opposed and will when they can.

[Jimbo]

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[shaolin10H8]

Yes my thoughts exacly, the guy said his sifu was bedding any female student he could. Dat cannot be rite especial when he in a position of respect and influence over them.

[shaolin10H8]

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Thank yiu Jimbo - i started it hear bececoz the sifu was zWing Chun as i am.

[Charles S]

I think if the lady wants to have relations or try a relationship with the man, then that is ok. He is trying to complete the action. Some would say that's not right. It's different if she isn't interested if he keeps pursuing. If she is enjoying her life with the relation to the instructor, then I think it's fine. He will initiate some, other times the lady will know immediately if she wants to sleep with him. If both come to an agreement, don't let your own sexual hangups or morality keep two people from enjoying themselves and each other.

[shaolin10H8]

I think if the lady wants to have relations or try a relationship with the man, then that is ok. He is trying to complete the action. Some would say that's not right. It's different if she isn't interested if he keeps pursuing. If she is enjoying her life with the relation to the instructor, then I think it's fine. He will initiate some, other times the lady will know immediately if she wants to sleep with him. If both come to an agreement, don't let your own sexual hangups or morality keep two people from enjoying themselves and each other.

Well morality I think is wrong all respect brother- the sifu sleeping with all de female students an then dumping dem is very disrespectful in my book. An apoarently the sifu has clubs all ariund de globe so its international taggin. Also sound like he break a lot ogpf hearts along de way - this cannot be a good ting