Originally Posted by
rett2
I'm by no means a teacher but I've had some experiences similar to yours and been helped by some teachers with good suggestions. I still have so-so hamstrings but my hips are good now. So here's a possible recipe you might test if you feel like it. If not, no worries.
It really sounds like you're overdoing it.
Stop the yoga altogether.
Take 1 or 2 complete rest days per week. How much depends on your age and health level. If you feel compelled to do something every day, do at most standing meditation in a high stance on day 7.
Use some of the time you are saving from quitting the yoga to work on your stances in isolation and let them lead toward the flexibility you need for the stances. The stances themselves will be your teachers. Start as high as you need to be to be comfortable. Use a mirror, feeling, a friend to get the alignment right for that height. Relax in the stance. Sink with lower body, rise with upper body, make the joints springy. Stand, hold, relax, do small movements at times if you need to. But spend a lot of time in each stance. Keep your attention in the body and not in thinking. Make it peaceful. Enjoy the reward as nourishing feelings flow from the lower spine or other places into the rest of the body. Over the course of weeks or months, as your body signals to you that it can, sink a bit more deeply into each stance, gradually increasing the amount of openness.
Let it develop slowly.
This is in addition your your ordinary taiji, cardio and strength training. But perhaps look and see if you tend to overdo that as well and neglect recovery. This stance training can be good during recovery time from other training. Adjust if necessary. Your call.
This is a recipe that makes sense to me and especially for someone my age (no spring chicken).
Anyhow good luck, whatever you decide.