people who hang on in chi sau?
Hi there, been absolutely ages since I posted, but I have been reading what's being posted from time to time.
My question concerns my chi sau practise.
I realise we should be soft while doing it as it helps to feel the others moves more, but when you are up against a person who tends to hang all their weight on you ( normally in defensive mode [tan bong]) how do you deal with it? Sometimes I let myself go completely and let the person fall forwards into me while I step back, but after you do the same thing repeatedly to the same person it can get tedious.(maybe my own impatience, but even when I warn them I will do it, some people still hang down on me.)
So, I was wondering if anyone else has other ways of dealing with this problem?
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