Fu-pow, you said that the raving lifestyle is anti-thetical to the kung fu one, but I can't wholly agree. Yes, superficially I concur ; the frequent drug use, concept of noise and chaos and typical shallowness of some personalities really does point in that direction. As does the general difficulty in maintaining both lifestyles at the same time. That's not all that is to it, though. I've always felt that the music, the dancers and the connection in that is almost mystical and very much like a form of meditation. Before I was into kung fu, I used to frequent a lot of raves. That strange thing, something like what Bak Mei was describing, was what kept me coming back. That was without any drugs involved. Now, I still sometimes go out of habit and to see old friends.
While they are very different things, the two "scenes", I definately think they're also similar at heart. One could say everything is similar at heart, but at least the road to that sameness is very strongly present in both, even though often missed entirely by folks in either group.
That said, I must add though, that at least for me, meditation is a much more potent tool for exploring that side of things and would suggest it over a "raving" approach at internal growth. Much more focused on "the thing itself", than some extraneous stuff.
Just a few thoughts.
"Once you get deeper into the study of Kung Fu you will realise that lineage and insulting others become more important than actual skill and fighting ability." -- Tai'ji Monkey
"Eh, IMO if you're bittching about what other people are doing instead of having intelligent (or stupid) conversation about kung fu or what your favorite beer is, you're spending too much time exploring your feminine side." -- Meat Shake