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taai gihk yahn
that's because you didn't trademark it: if you wanted it to be your language, then you should have written it "English™", and it would have been yours; unfortunately for you, I have now done so myself, so it is now mine, and cannot now be yours, forever;
see, most people here like their topics medium rare...
OTOH, for many people their tool in life is a hammer, so everywhere they go they will see nails; so it might actually not be a bad idea for someone to be a screw if it means avoiding getting hit on the head continuously...
ok, in all seriousness Hendrick, you claim to want to make things easy for people; but at the same time, you set-up what you think is the appropriate end-goal for people in practice / life, etc. (you know, the whole silence, stillness, surrender, etc. thing), then you tell people that there is only one way to get there, which is the particular path that you have found works for you, and you dismiss out of hand as speculation anyone who disagrees and presents their own "goal" (so to speak) and method of attainment; you also contradict yourself by criticizing anyone who references any sort of text as an example to support what they say, stating that it's inappropriate to rely on texts, but then you yourself constantly post links to songs / videos as a means of illustrating your point, which, sorry to say, is exactly the same thing; finally, if someone points this all out to you, you don't engage but rather become passive aggressive, send them all your love, tell them that you are happy for them and discontinue responding to them;
this serves to turn off the majority of people with whom you "communicate", and while that's as may be, if your point is to assist people to whatever you believe is the proper path, alienating them really isn't going to get you far at all in that regard;
in fact, for whatever reason, you seem to cause controversy and conflict pretty much every where you post - yet you persist in the belief that you are 100% correct and that everyone else is wrong-minded;
at bottom, your presence here creates more confusion (to people who try to figure out what you are trying to say) and contention (with people who think you are incorrect for whatever reason); in fact, your posting here creates an environment which is the very antithesis of the clarity and agreement that you purport to advocate;
ok, you may now love me and dismiss me as per your usual m/o, ya big lug...