nah, i'd actually rather argue that no one person gets to decide. ultimately it doesn't matter what you as an individual, bawang, thinks no matter how authentically chinese you claim to be. it is clear who you want to work with and who you want to exclude, and on my end.. there are plenty of folks who will build community with me. you sound like you have a lot of anger issues and seem to enjoy instigating on these forums and being antagonistic. it's a reflection of who you are as a human being. enjoy your life .