I think I covered that in my post?
"I used to compare it to 'drowning', meaning that the opponent feels smothered, has very restricted movement and unltimately does not feel like they can stand upright/get to the surface and if they do try, every effort is smothered again until they give up and go down! This is all done without even hitting them"
I'm definitely not chasing hamds either. IOW I am not seeking 'a' bridge I 'am' the seeking bridge. Does that make sense to you?