Hi Eric, no way are you alone on this.
This is a way of appreciating things, having respectful dialog between practitioners and learning. We learn our Gung Fu with our hands, we express it with our hands, and if we want to learn more we show respect with our mouth to all others in Wu Lin.
It’s what I picked up from my Teachers in Singapore. This is also how you touch hands and learn - safely. If you want to learn you have to “eat” someone’s Kung Fu not find intellectual ways of belittling it or putting yourself forward.
Gung Fu is "Art" as you can only appreciate art not compare. As soon as you compare there's only one way to settle it.
Really, I think if practitioners talk in terms of comparison, you’re better off not talking at all as such conversations invariably end up coming to a heated stale mate with each practitioner trying to convince another, who’s not going to shift their ground anyway, that they are right or that their method is more correct, true to the source, refined, blah, blah, blah. I believe the Cantonese have a nice expression for this – “Talking down the cow’s horn”, it comes to nothing.
We learn with our hands, when we talk here on the board we can get pointers to go out and test with our hands and you Eric, have provided many and I thank you but we can’t “learn” anything until we do that.
I guess, basically, I’m just a bit wary of what I think I know, as I do know, that my body will only do what it really “knows” and no more.
So for me Flavour is the best term to talk about the way styles express themselves. You can get a taste from the forms but it only really gets interesting when you touch hands.
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I agree with you, but the Flavour of a style and its development from a root or "master sauce" (yep, I like cooking) is a bit different from its characteristics be they similar or different. Its like a life story you can kind of touch down the ages and it takes time to develop. This is why I don’t do MMA cause its kind of like eating nothing but plain rice porridge - keeps you going and does the job but there’s that and more in TCMA.
Don’t get me wrong I think we all need to put the gloves on and get a bit of porridge. I just appreciate all the side dishes that come with TCMA as well, including the fish balls. I’m a greedy b@$tard.