Well that sucks and it was a bad experience for you guys. Not everyone has the same approach with the "paticake" drills. Maybe it's a WC thing.
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this is my boxer friend who I play paticake with
Of course no one relies on just one option
the paticake drills work in our neck of the woods. But we realize we're weekend warrior amateurs and no one has any delusions about being in the UFC. That's the problem with most TCMA people. Unrealistic expectations and comparisons.
If it works for you and you like it, do it. If you see value in something and can get it to work, do it. If not - don't. I like trapping and set ups.
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PS, I don't f*ck with that guy too much - he's faster than h*ll and waaaayyyyy tougher than me. But I do enjoy working out and sparring with him when I get the chance. I just have to remind him that I'm an old poosey and he has to take it easy on me.