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    Russian Women and Match.com

    So I have some Russian chick from match who says she loves me....we never actually spoke...I have barely said more than simple 4-5 word sentances to her, and most of those were the most basic of questions, that she ignores....but she has fallen in love with me, and wants me to wire her some money for a Visa and travel expenses to come see me.

    Your thoughts?

    Do you want for me to post the e-mails?
    Those that are the most sucessful are also the biggest failures. The difference between them and the rest of the failures is they keep getting up over and over again, until they finally succeed.


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    The oldest letters were deleted, but at that point i thought she was too far for any sort of relationship, and mostlikely just interested in comming to the USA. I told her it would not work because of the distance and stopped e-mailing her. a week or so went by, and I get this:


    Unfortunately, there is no letter from you. Such a
    pity!
    I came to the Internet cafe in such a good mood. And
    what
    a surprise- nothing from you.
    I know that I shouldn't react like this. You maybe
    busy
    with your own things.
    But I will be waiting as much as it is necessary.
    And I hope you will suddenly remember about me and
    drop me
    a line just to cheer me up.
    And in spite of all the difficulties in my life,
    though
    the weather is very dull and there is no sun, I feel
    happy.
    Only a person who was lonely could feel this. The
    world
    and the life are now colored with bright colors. You
    get
    up in the morning knowing that someone is thinking of
    you,
    maybe even at this minute he is thinking of you,
    wishing
    you to have a very good day and even sending you an
    air kiss.
    Your letters woke up a poet in me. And I like this
    feeling
    very much.
    I am in a very strange mood today.
    I have remembered one song right now. I am sure you
    know it.
    It is a very famous song called "Stand by you." I am
    sure
    you will understand me better after reading this. This
    is
    what I would like to have in relations with my beloved
    person:

    Oh, Why You Look So Sad?
    Tears Are In Your Eyes
    Come On And Come To Me Now
    Don't Be Ashamed To Cry
    Let Me See You Through
    'Cause I've Seen The Dark Side Too

    When The Night Falls On You
    You Don't Know What To Do
    Nothing You Confess
    Could Make Me Love You Less

    I'll Stand By You, I'll Stand By You
    Won't Let Nobody Hurt You, I'll Stand By You

    So If You're Mad, Get Mad
    Don't Hold It All Inside
    Come On And Talk To Me Now
    Hey, What You Got To Hide?
    I Get Angry Too
    Well I'm A Lot Like You

    When You're Standing At The Crossroads
    And Don't Know Which Path To Choose
    Let Me Come Along
    'Cause Even If You're Wrong

    I'll Stand By You, I'll Stand By You
    Won't Let Nobody Hurt You, I'll Stand By You
    Take Me In, Into Your Darkest Hour
    And I'll Never Desert You, I'll Stand By You

    And When, When The Night Falls On You, Baby
    You're Feeling All Alone
    You Won't Be On Your Own

    I'll Stand By You, I'll Stand By You
    Won't Let Nobody Hurt You, I'll Stand By You
    Take Me In, Into Your Darkest Hour
    And I'll Never Desert You, I'll Stand By You
    I'll Stand By You,
    Won't Let Nobody Hurt You, I'll Stand By You
    Won't Let Nobody Hurt You, I'll Stand By You
    Take Me In, Into Your Darkest Hour
    Won't Let Nobody Hurt You, I'll Stand By You

    --
    yours Anastasiya
    lapuwe4ka@yahoo.com

    Here is some of my pics
    http://photos.yahoo.com/lapochkafm

    ----
    You wrote Thursday, August 17, 2006, 6:04:34 AM:

    > Hi, Are you looking to come to the US?
    >
    > Your pictures are VERY beautiful!

    > Anastasiya <lapochka@fmgirl.com> wrote:
    > Sorry!!!!!! I could not answer you earlier.
    > I did not see your letter. It has been placed in
    spam folder.
    > I do not know why it happens.
    > Probably it is a mistake of a server.
    > I shall disconnect spam filter. Also I hope my
    letter
    > it will not be placed in yours spam the filter.
    > Check it more often.
    > I am glad that you have answered me. If I am still
    > interesting to you, write to me.
    > My name is Anastasiya. I am 28 years old (still
    young but mature
    > enough to know what I want in this life).
    > Also call me shortly Nastya. This what usually
    people who know me well call me.
    > But also there are different ways to call me
    tenderly,
    > like Nastyona or Nastechka.
    > My height is 167 cms(it 5.5 foots), my weight is 56
    kgs.
    > I am in a good shape. I am not skinny but look
    really nice.
    > I am not boasting, it is true.
    > I take good care of myself as I care of my
    appearance but
    > I am not fanatic.
    > I have a higher education. I studied on the faculty
    of
    > Russian language. So I am very good at Russian as
    you see
    > I have also finished courses of a medical nurse and
    can
    > make massage too. I should say I am rather good at
    it.
    > My family is not really big. I have a step father
    and stepbrother.
    > Unfortunately, I don't have really close relations
    with them.
    > Sometimes we gather for holidays but it happens very
    seldom.
    > I feel very sad saying this but my mother died from
    the cancer.
    > I loved her very much and I miss her badly.
    > I live alone. And I have to learn for my living. I
    could
    > work as a teacher of Russian. But teachers get very
    small
    > salaries in Russia. And I need to earn for my living
    myself.
    > That's why I have finished courses.
    > Now I work as a medical nurse in the private clinic.
    > And I also do massage, it is my extra work. Thus how
    I earn
    > for my living. I am not complaining but it is really
    a hard
    > work. I should always be kind and polite though with
    some
    > people it seems to be impossible. I don't want to
    loose
    > my job. So I try always to be patient even with rude
    people.
    > And what is more important, I get moral satisfaction
    helping
    > people. It is my contribution into the world.
    > The city I live in is called Gatchina. These are 40
    kilometers
    > from St.-Petersburg.
    > I live in Gatchina. But I work in St.-Petersburg.
    Almost
    > every day I should go 40 kilometers for work, and
    back home.
    > We have many places of interests and lots of
    historical
    > places. I enjoy walking there. Also we have some
    theatres
    > and cinemas.
    > I want to have my own family very much. You know,
    family is
    > like a castle. Nobody can't break it if you really
    love your
    > family and fight for it. It is a place where you
    come with
    > joy and happiness.
    > And you feel bad and sad your family will always
    support you.
    > This is what I am looking for. I am looking for a
    person who
    > would be with me in bad and in good times. It is so
    important
    > to know that there is a person who need you and that
    you
    > are not alone in this world any more. Do you agree?
    > Now you will have an idea of who I am.
    > Ok, I will stop here and tell you more in my next
    letters.
    > I will be waiting impatiently for your reply.
    > Enjoy your day!
    Those that are the most sucessful are also the biggest failures. The difference between them and the rest of the failures is they keep getting up over and over again, until they finally succeed.


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    . . . tell her you'll send money in exchange for nudies.
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    Russian women are hot.
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    Reading all that was depressing. I have a cousin working as a missionary in Ukraine, she talks about how the simplest things in the U.S. are big deals over there. Getting heat for her apartment building last winter involved NUMEROUS bribes. I also knew a young lady from Moscow (Yolena) who joined my old martial art class...she had a nursing degree and making it to the U.S. (she said) was the best thing that could ever happen to her.
    Yeah, the girl probably just wants to make it to the U.S...but I wouldn't hold that against her either.
    Keep it simple, stupid.

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    I was born and raised in Italy. I have met my wife in Internet and after trips to meet her personally I decided to move to USA and marry her. Now it's been 5 years and we have a wonderful 18 month daughter together.

    I happened to send money to my wife to help when I was still in Italy (above all for the phone bills heehee), but I already knew alot about her.

    It depends on how well you know her and how long you 2 have been talking. A tourist visa might not be that expensive (she will pay there in Rubli and with the exchange probably in US dollards will be a low cost). But if she wants also the money for the plane ticket I would think about it twice. You might take a couple of weeks vacation and fly over there to meet her, at least you have a good vacation even if she is a fake.

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    what the heck, does everybody have a match.com profile?

    i'd stay away personally, if she's ignoring your questions to her i'd say that means she's more worried about getting da fug outta there than really being in love with you.
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    AND, yea, a good bit of it is about whether you can fight with what you know...kinda all of it is about that.

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    I got a similar letter-I could tell by the way she wrote that she was foreign-possibly Russian. It's one thing to get a wink, or a short,"Hi, liked yur profile. You sound interesting..whatever write back"
    it's quite another to get this first letter and it's intense. That should be a major red flag.
    There was an article in GQ a few issues back that told a great horror story of a guy who met a Costa Rican girl over the internet and did the whole nine yards, and after the time limmit was up, and she got her green card, the whole relationship changed. He was devastated, not only financially, but emotionally as well.
    just be careful, bro.

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    Click the link to her pictures

    http://photos.yahoo.com/lapochkafm
    Those that are the most sucessful are also the biggest failures. The difference between them and the rest of the failures is they keep getting up over and over again, until they finally succeed.


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    BTW- there are some SMOKIN Asian girls fro Shenzhen on match too!

    (yeah, it is definately tempting...)
    if I go for that, Royal Dragon and I can cry in our beers together

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    The first few letters were just normal chit chat. It's after I started ignoring her that they got like this. I have more from her, I will be posting them over the next few days.
    Those that are the most sucessful are also the biggest failures. The difference between them and the rest of the failures is they keep getting up over and over again, until they finally succeed.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Royal Dragon View Post
    Click the link to her pictures

    http://photos.yahoo.com/lapochkafm
    She's hot!
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    Russian Scam Artists

    RD, you should be aware there are a lot of dating scams going on now. Before you send any $$$.

    Also, if she doesn't listen to you now, it's doubtful she'll listen to you later, even if she is legit.

    http://www.russian-scam.org/message.htm

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    Talking

    Fly to her, do the deed and be done.

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