You really have a strange hang up on gloves. I train in 6 oz mma gloves all of the time and the less than 1/4 inch of padding makes absolutely no difference to range or timing, it also has no impact on power as power isn't generated in the hand it simply reduces the level of impact / damage caused which is entirely the point.
As for imposing your fight strategy onto the opponent, that is easier said than done especially when you are being attacked from angles that you are unfamiliar with.