I find this to be more of a cultural or mental barrier in WCK and possibly other traditionally oriented arts than it is in the combat oriented arts. Many traditional teachers will nix the idea and won't permit any $$ flowing outside the school especially.
If you're talking BJJ, then Andrew is right - privates are the key. Most BJJ black belts will do a group private lesson. For noobs a cheaper option is a purple belt and up - could get a great deal on that kind of thing. Preventing takedowns - with the state of wrestling currently I'm sure you could get a very high level wrestler for very very cheap for a private for that. And if you ask them to teach you drills to develop the skill, then your $$ on the private will stretch a lot ****her. Get multiple people together, pool $$ and have very specific goals. Boxers also - sheesh good amateur boxers don't even have the mentality of getting paid to teach.
Of course if people have douchebag attitudes of superiority rather than really wanting to learn that's unproductive and lends more to getting hurt. But that's just life, no?
Yep.
This is also a factor, and it's hard to avoid. We're martial artists, usually means that we're broken in some sense, big egos, inferiority complex, repressed nerd rage, seen it all at this point.Of course if people have douchebag attitudes of superiority rather than really wanting to learn that's unproductive and lends more to getting hurt. But that's just life, no?The mental issues that go along with being a good sparring partner and finding good ones even inside your own school deserves a thread all it's own.
Sure, hit me up on FB.Interesting. Want to kick some specific ideas around offline?
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"Once you reject experience, and begin looking for the mysterious, then you are caught!" - Krishnamurti
"We are all one" - Genki Sudo
"We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion" - Tool, Parabol/Parabola
"Bro, you f***ed up a long time ago" - Kurt Osiander
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Another problem is that a lot of Wing Chun guys train too much Chi Sao and dead drills. I'm not saying Chi Sao is useless. On the contrary, it's essential to really understanding and using the system. But you have to train and practice fighting in a real way as well. Otherwise, the training is just too far removed from the feel of real fighting. Chi Sao is for sensitivity and developing the attributes needed for fighting. It is NOT real fighting like some people seem to think. In a real fight, it probably accounts for less than a half second. Of course that can be a crucial half second, but there's far more to fighting than just that. And Chi Sao competitions are beyond stupid. If you don't know the feel of fighting someone for real, you won't be able to suddenly rise to the occasion when it happens. This is what far too many Wing Chun guys do. Even other things like body conditioning are ignored by the vast majority. The bottom line is that if you really want to learn how to fight, you're going to have to go through some pain. If you think that you can just do forms and tons of Chi Sao and you're ready for fighting, you'll learn the hard way that it's not enough.